Work-life. What balance?
Ten years ago work-life balance was a conversation held at few workplaces around the world and in Australia. Today talk of work-life balance is commonplace, with a sense of urgency.
Personally, I find the whole concept of work-life balance a little problematic. First of all, it divides your existence into two halves, the work bit and the life bit. Work is your Mondays to Fridays. Life is your weekends, your holidays, and whatever free time you have left for yourself (either before or after work) on Monday, Tuesday, Wednesday, Thursday, and Friday. And the implicit suggestion is that work is a bit of a chore — something you have to do in order to live — and life is when you really get to live your life (or what’s left of it after work).
My second problem with work-life balance is this. If you don’t design your life, someone else will design it for you — and you may not like his or her idea of balance. Especially if that someone else is a commercial corporation. Because commercial companies are inherently designed to get as much out of you as they can get away with.
And while they may talk the work-life balance talk, going to work on Friday in a jeans and t-shirt is not work-life balance. Giving your employees an iPhone is just another way for companies to keep you working even when you’re not at work. Putting childcare facilities into the workplace is just another way for companies to keep you working more and longer at the office, not some sort of New Age HR strategy for enlightened companies.
If you were to design your life, what would your time frame for a good work-life balance be?
This is my work-life balance time frame. Wake up well rested after a good nights sleep at 8am. Catch up on the news, have a coffee, shower, get dressed, head into work for a 10am start. Do 3 hours work. Have lunch, do some shopping, soak up the sun for a bit. Do another 2 hours work. Meet some friends for a drink and a laugh. Drive home for dinner. Watch some good TV. Go to bed. Read for half an hour. Sleep.
Funny thing is I never have this day. Never ever. Do you?
You see, the thing is that there is no such thing as this sort of ‘work-life balance’. Which is why I’d like to propose an alternative way of viewing ‘work-life balance’.
There is no distinction between work and life if your work is as much a part of your life as your life is. If your work is an expression of who you are and what you do, then it’s not work — it’s you just living your life. In other words, it’s all life, with the good and the bad all rolled up into one. Mondays as good (or as bad) as Saturdays.
There is no such thing as work-life balance. Everything worth fighting for unbalances your life.